How Storytelling Restores Voice and Forms Resilient Disciples
Bethany and Matthew Williams are co-founders of Exile International, a ministry dedicated to empowering rescued child soldiers & children orphaned by wars in Uganda and D.R. Congo to become leaders for peace through art-focused trauma care & holistic rehabilitation.
In other words, child orphans and prisoners of war learn to lean on Jesus, overcome the most severe PTSD, and become leaders for peace, all through the power of their own story.
In this post, we’ll expand on our recent podcast interview with Bethany and Matthew to explain the miraculous power of story to heal even the most horrific trauma. We’ll also use examples from the Bible to reveal the secret of why giving survivors the opportunity to share their story helps give a voice to the voiceless.
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Trauma Silences Identity and Voice in Vulnerable Children
The kids in Exile’s programs have been abducted, assaulted, tortured, and starved. They’ve been forced to become soldiers of war, and to watch their loved ones die horrific deaths—sometimes at their own hand. Many of the children have no idea that anyone in the world even knows there is a war going on, and they certainly can’t imagine that anyone cares about what is happening to them in the middle of the war. This is why storytelling in ministry is not optional—it is essential for restoring identity and voice.
As Matthew explained, “War and violence and trauma steals so many things from individuals, so they’ve learned, ‘I don’t matter, my voice doesn’t matter’ … Trauma steals our power and our voice.” During the formative years of their lives, these children learn life is full of horror, they don’t matter, and no one cares. They have no security, no voice, and no one to care for them, so they believe they have no hope and no future.
How Scripture Reveals God’s Care for the Voiceless
Many of the Bible’s vulnerable characters felt the same way. For example, Hagar, the woman at the well, and the woman with the bleeding issue were used, misunderstood, abused, ignored, dismissed, and alone. Like many women at that time, they were voiceless. They were outcasts with no one to care for them and no hope for a future.
But with Jesus, there is always hope, so we follow examples from Scripture. But with Jesus, there is always hope, so we follow examples from Scripture.
Why Storytelling in Ministry Is a Core Practice for Trauma Healing
Storytelling in ministry is central to how Exile approaches trauma healing. Missionaries at Exile are trained in the highly acclaimed EMPOWER Trauma Rehabilitation Program, a unique method of trauma healing that unites proven mental health practices and engagement with God through the Bible. The children are encouraged to process their trauma through story, art, song, writing, games and other activities, and leave their pain and trauma at the cross where they will find restoration.
In other words, the children are healed through telling and sharing their own story. Does this sound familiar? It should if you’ve taken any of our storytelling courses or listened to any of our storytelling podcast episodes. We’ve talked about Dr. Curt Thompson’s research a handful of times. Remember what Dr. Thompson says, “The process of reflecting on and telling others your story, and the way you experience others hearing it, actually shapes the story and the very neural networks it represents.” In other words, sharing our story literally heals us, and that’s what these kids are experiencing.
You may think the children would resist the painful process, but Bethany explained how the kids seem to instinctively know their own story has the power to heal them. “The kids really, really, really want their stories to be told. That’s one thing that I’ve learned from the very beginning is that when we ask the kids if they want their story to be told, about ninety percent of our kids are like, ‘Yes! Tell my story of survival. Tell the world what God did and how he saved me.’”
Bethany shared that one way the children express and share their experience is by “drawing their stories of heartache, hopes, and dreams on a handkerchief because a handkerchief represents capturing our tears. Then we ask them, ‘Do you want to keep the handkerchief? Or do you want to send it back with us as a story piece so that we can let the world know what’s going on with the war?’ And ninety percent of them are like, ‘Please take it.’ We often mark the names out, but it’s a way for their story to be told.”
Matthew has also seen how most of the children embrace the opportunity to be heard. “I remember having that conversation with kids during my first year at Exile, and seeing the light come to their face of like, ‘What? You want to share my story? You want to hear my story?’ But I think about how that taps in for each of us. We want to be understood, we want to be known.”
One of Matthew’s favorite activities is when a child agrees to share their story as a video online. He described their amazement when the kids see their own story and notice how many people are watching it. “Then they know, ‘Wow! This is my story and people are watching this!’ Their stories are getting out there and are being shared in a way that’s honoring to them. So then to share their story is to give them their voice back. And that is powerful.”
What Happens When a Story Is Told
When a child tells their story, they are not just remembering. They are reinterpreting their life in the presence of others. As Curt Thompson explains, being heard reshapes how the brain holds memory. In ministry terms, this is where healing begins—when pain is no longer carried alone.
Jesus Restores Identity by Listening and Naming
Scripture shows us the power of our story to heal. When “the God who sees me” saw Hagar in the desert, He gave her hope and a future that all things would work out for good. When the same God made flesh met the woman at the well, He saw her greatest need was to feel that she mattered. He loved her enough to meet her in the desert to share a story of salvation with an outcast. Even when the reluctant woman with the bleeding issue was forced to speak, she learned that her story of faith had the power to heal.
God empowered these women the moment their story became part of His. By giving them a voice entwined with His voice, the women learned they matter. Their stories of hurt and shame turned into hope for a future. “You are the God of seeing… Truly here I have seen him who looks after me.” — Genesis 16:13, ESV
“Then the woman… told him the whole truth.” — Mark 5:33, ESV
This is the deeper pattern behind storytelling in ministry—people are seen, known, and restored in the presence of God and others.
How Story Forms Disciples Who Carry Hope to Others
Children who go through Exile’s program move on with their lives, sharing their story of pain and of healing through Christ. They become empowered leaders of peace as their story gives a voice to the voiceless, and healing to the hopeless.
I believe Bethany speaks for all Exile survivors in this quote.
“There are so many broken people. We all have our secrets, and we all have trauma, and we all have woundedness. It’s so cool when people hear and read the kids’ stories and the depth of redemption that God has given them. I’ve heard so many times, that people think, ‘If those kids can survive, being forced to kill someone, or those kids can survive, being captive in the bush, or being orphans on the street, and look what God’s doing with their lives, then it gives me hope for what God can do with my pain, and my woundedness.’ It’s like the kids in our program are teaching our Western friends about survival and redemption, and it’s really cool to see.”
Healing is not the end of the story. Formed people become carriers of hope. Their story becomes a place where others begin to believe healing is possible.
What This Means for Your Ministry Today
While we don’t know what happened to the woman with the bleeding issue, we know Hagar became the mother of a nation, and the woman at the well told her story to evangelize an entire community.
It’s intriguing that we never learn the names of the woman at the well or the woman with the issue of bleeding. I believe God wanted it that way, because, as Bethany said, we are all the woman at the well. We all feel alone, dismissed, abused, and ashamed sometimes. We all feel voiceless.
God made the entire universe with His word. Since we are made in His image, doesn’t it make sense that our voice is important to our well-being? Friends, God is the same yesterday, today, and forever. Their story—His story—is our story, and it’s a privilege to be loved enough to have our story as part of His. For ministry leaders, storytelling in ministry is not just a communication tool—it is a discipleship practice that forms people from the inside out.
FAQ
Why is storytelling important in ministry?
Storytelling helps people process pain, encounter God, and integrate their experiences into a redemptive narrative.
Can storytelling really help heal trauma?
Yes. When stories are told in safe, relational environments, the brain and body begin to reprocess trauma. Read Dr. Curt Thompson’s “Anatomy of the Soul” to learn more about how story can physically heal the brain.
Is storytelling biblical?
Yes. Scripture repeatedly shows people encountering God and then sharing what He has done (John 4; Mark 5).
How can churches use storytelling in discipleship?
By creating spaces where people can share testimonies, reflect on Scripture, and be heard without judgment.
What role does listening play in ministry?
Listening communicates dignity. It reflects the character of God, who sees and hears the overlooked.
How do you ensure stories are shared with dignity?
By prioritizing consent, protecting identity when needed, and avoiding sensationalizing pain.
Help Your Ministry Tell Stories That Heal
Stories are not just content. They are formation tools.
When people are seen, heard, and rooted in God’s story, they begin to heal—and that healing becomes a witness.
This is the quiet work of the Kingdom.
Not louder platforms, but restored people.
Not better messaging alone, but lives that carry the story of Jesus with integrity.
If your ministry wants to communicate stories with clarity, dignity, and theological depth, we can help.
Start with a conversation about your messaging strategy.
